STEP 1
Rank Your Life Priorities
Use the dropdown next to each priority to assign a rank from 1 (most important) to 10 (least important). Each number can only be used once.
Career
Your focus on professional growth, ambition, and work-life balance.
Communication
The importance of open, honest conversation and emotional check-ins.
Entertainment
How you value hobbies, fun, downtime, and shared leisure.
Finances
Your approach to budgeting, saving, spending, and long-term security.
Growth
Commitment to learning, self-improvement, and personal development.
Health
Focus on physical, mental, and emotional well-being.
Relationships
Value placed on family, friends, and your social circle.
Safety
The need for emotional and financial security, and predictability in life.
Sex
Priority on intimacy, physical connection, and shared desires.
Spirituality
Importance of faith, spiritual practice, or personal meaning.
That's it. 10 priorities, ranked 1–10. Takes about 5 minutes.
WHAT YOU'LL DISCOVER
Your Relationship Results
After both partners submit, you'll receive a detailed breakdown of your alignment.
YOUR TDS SCORE
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TDS
Your Score
The Total Difference Score (TDS) measures how aligned your priorities are — from 0 (perfect sync) to 50 (maximum difference).
The TDS Scale
0 = perfect alignment · 50 = maximum differenceMOST ALIGNED
GROWTH AREAS
Sample data — your results will reflect your actual rankings
PRIORITY RANKINGS COMPARISON
Sample data — your results will show your actual rankings side by side
AND THAT'S NOT ALL
Your Results Also Include
Potential Conflict Zones
Common tension patterns based on where your priorities diverge most.
Conversation Starters
Specific questions tailored to your biggest differences to spark meaningful dialogue.
Personalized Guidance
AI-generated relationship advice based on your unique results and alignment patterns.
Alignment Over Time
Retake the test and track how your priorities shift across months and years.
HOW IT WORKS
Three Simple Steps
You Rank
Rank your 10 life priorities from most to least important. Takes about 5 minutes.
Invite Your Partner
Send them a link or code. They rank their priorities separately and privately.
Compare Results
See your TDS score, alignment breakdown, and personalized conversation starters.
READY?
See Your Real Results
Create your free account to take the test. It takes about 5 minutes, and your partner can join whenever they're ready.
Secure & private — your data is never shared
Not ready yet? Send the link to your partner.
We'll email you a direct link you can share when the time is right.
QUESTIONS?